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Hypnotherapy – The Second Session – The Control Room

Tuesday, March 17th, 2009

My second session was as interesting as my first but for very different reasons.  Quite a bit, if not all, of hypnotherapy is about visualisation and this was my first foray into that visualisation.

I’m going to skip over my journey into the control room because each time I do trance work I find it to be quite a personal experience.  As your mind relaxes you remember things from the past and find yourself thinking about things that you wouldn’t normally think about.  There’s things I’ve sorted in my own mind, quite unrelated to weight-loss, just in the process of getting into a relaxed state.

Anyway, this session of trance work was focussed on my control room.

The control room is essentially a visual representation of your subconcious mind and the inner workings that control your body.  It might sound weird but most of the control of your body goes on in the subconcious mind.  Breathing is an obvious example where there is both conscious and unconscious control.  Think about it a little more and you’ll soon start to realise that most things, walking, standing up, blinking, yawning, swallowing etc etc are controlled unconsciously.  It’s not magic, the physiological basis for all of these things are pretty well understood, but it does remind you that you’re not in control of your body as much as you think you are.

I digress.  The point is that as you live your life there is very little that your body does that you have full conscious control over, eating is one of them.  If you don’t have conscious control then how do you change your behaviour?  The control room gives you a way of visualisaing the inner working and gives you a fighting chance of changing them.

The first sight I got of my control room was through a large steel door that was embedded in a rock.  I have a precise location in my mind now of where my control room is and I find it pretty easy to get back there is I ever need to fix anything.  My control room is a pretty big place.  There’s a tonne of switches and dials and monitors and displays and instrumentation in there and plenty of things that I have no idea what the hell they are.  The closest I can come to describing it is…take Elrod House, the place they used as one of Blowfeld’s Lairs in the Bond film Diamonds are Forever and the one in the picture, mix it with a nuclear power plant control room, throw in a chair and table set, a big mirror, a massive opaque glass sheet on one wall, some big green plants and a rock formation with water flowing across it’s surface and you’re pretty much there.

The point of me being in my control room was to find the switch, or the dial, or the button that was broken or out of kilter and fix it.  I browsed around and found a few things that I didn’t like the look of.  I’ve fixed most of them now but there’s still more to go.  The one I was looking for at the time was obviously the one that controls my eating.

I found it on a control panel right in the middle of the room.  It looked a little like the image at the top of the post.  It was a simple switch with two read-outs.  As you pushed the button one display increased and one decreased.  The two displays we’re my representation of the control I have around eating and the amount of food I eat.  When I got to the switch my control over eating was pretty much zero and the amount I ate was at a 10.  I flicked the switch and brought them to about 5 each.  There was still something that wasn’t quite right.  I found out what later on in another session but it’s a long story.

While I was in my control room this time I just sat at the table and chilled out a bit.  I had a good old look around too.  I found plenty of things to fix and I found plenty of things that were working very well.

The only other thing we did in there was to go and take  alook in the mirror.  It was a classic visualise you goals kind of exercise.  When I looked in the mirror it wasn’t me who was looking back at me, it was me in a few months when I’d met my goals.  When I first looked in the mirror it was like it was smeared with grease.  I couldn’t get a clear image of what I was going to look like or feel like.  It took a few sessions to get the image crystal clear but I have it in my minds eye now.

After sitting for a little while longer in my control room I left it there and headed back out into the sun of the surrounding area.  I made my way back to where I’d started and Clare roused me from my trance.

All in all this session was fascinating.  I have visited my control room on many occasions since and when I get the chance to do some self-hypnosis it’s one of the places I always check in on, just to make sure things are running smoothly.

Sid.

Hypnotherapy – The First Session

Wednesday, February 18th, 2009

My first hypnotherapy session was less hypnotherapy and more getting used to Clare, my hypnotherapist, getting used to the surroundings and talking through some of my motivations and how I currently feel about my weight.  In total the session lasted about 90mins with the first 60mins being set aside for a chat and the last 30mins being used for some trance work.

The conversation I had with Clare was an interesting one.  At first the questions were fairly lightweight.  Why are you thinking of losing weight?  Have you got any goals in mind?  Have you tried losing weight before?  Did you succeed or fail and why do you think it turned out as it did.  Then it moved on to some more in depth questions around my attitude to food, whether I snacked a lot, whether I could remember anything from my past that changed my attitude to food, whether there was any patterns to my eating such as always having to finish the food on my plate or eating quickly/slowly.  Finally the questions switched to ones which at first don’t seem to be entirely relevant.  What makes you laugh?  When are you at your happiest?  When are you relaxed?

To be honest that conversation got me thinking a lot.  I think even if the sessions were just me having a chat with Clare that would have done me the world of good.  Normally I don’t chat in-depth to anybody about my weight.  I guess I’m embarrassed in a way.  I often wonder why I find it so difficult to keep my weight under control compared to many other people.

After the conversation it was time for my first bit of trance work.  To call it trance work makes it seem like it’s some sort of mystical event.  In reality it’s not, but I do find it quite strange even now that I’ve had quite a few sessions.  To get into a ‘trance’ involves relaxing both your body and mind to a very deep level.  When I first tried it I found it quick difficult.  I found that I could get to one level of relaxation very easily but to take it to a deeper level, a trance level, took a little more effort.  For anyone who does Yoga or other activities that involve meditation-like activities I think you’ll find it easier.  Most of it is about clearing your mind, realising you’re in a safe place and allowing yourself the time to think about things and focus on thoughts in a much more detailed way.  I still have difficulty with self-hypnosis as still find it difficult to get to this level of relaxation without the help of Clare.

It’s difficult to describe what it feels like to be in this state.  When I’m in that state I find I can hear everything with a clarity that I never usually do but at the same time I don’t realy care for any of it.  You’re not asleep or unconscious or dissociated or any of that.  You are fully aware of everything that is going on around you and you understand that you could react to anything if you choose to.  I also find that while I’m in this state my mind reminds me of a lot of things I’ve forgotten but at the same time it lets me resolve them very quickly.  It’s freaky.  It’s a freaky situation to be in but it’s good.

Because we didn’t have a lot of time for trance work this first bit focussed on confirming that I was ready to lose weight and built up to Clare asking my subconscious mind whether or not it was ready to help me lose weight.  This is where I got a little freaked out.  Clare had said that she would talk to my subconscious mind during the trance work but I’d kind of laughed it of.  I guess that’s the point of relaxing, to allow your conscious mind to take a rest and let your subconscious mind take over for a little while.

I can’t really remember exactly how Clare led up to the question she asked of my unconscious mind but one of the first things she did was get my subconscious mind to make two movements, one to signify a ‘yes’ and one to signify a ‘no’.  It really got me when my right index finger picked itself up for a yes and my right thumb picked itself up for a no.  I know it was me choosing to do it but it wasn’t through the normal route you make decisions.  Once that was done Clare asked if my unconscious mind was ready to help me lose weight.  To my astonishment it said no.  That’s when my conscious mind kicked in and thought, “Well fuck you arsehole!”

From what I remember that’s where we left it.  I was roused from the trance and we had another little chat before I left.  I was pretty annoyed that the answer was no but the wird thing is you know that it’s you answering the question.  It means you do a lot of soul searching, asking yourself if losing weight is really what you want.

I left the therapy room feeling strangely invigorated.  I went back to my desk at work and cracked out some of the best work I’d done for a while.  Clare suggested I didn’t talk about the hypnotherpay for a couple of days so I just let it dwell on my mind a little before chatting to Michelle.

A week after I was back for my second session but I think I’ve waffled on enough for one post.  You can look forward to that and my control room!

Sid.

Hypnotherapy for Weight Loss

Tuesday, February 3rd, 2009

I’ve tried to lose weight plenty of times before and never really had much success.  Well, I did when I first started work but for some reason I don’t see that counting as proper weight-loss, it just kind of happened.

Anyway, this time round when I look at my tracking graph I keep surprising myself at how much weight I have lost already.  I never though that I would start to worry that I was losing weight too quickly.  It makes me wonder what I’ve done differently and the one thing that always comes round is hypnosis.  It’s actually a mixture of things which I’ve changed but the root of all the changes is the hypnosis.

So with me thinking that it’s made a massive difference I want to share it with you guys in the hope that it helps someone else out.  So the next few posts will be a little series on hypnotherapy for weight loss.  I can’t profess to being an expert but I’ll just run through my experiences that have taken me from being a complete sceptic to a ‘believer’.

The first thing I want to make clear is…

Hypnotherapy is not like the hypnosis you see on TV.

This was the first thing I had to get over.  I was very sceptical when I went in that it would all be about putting me into a trance and giving me loads of suggestions much like when you see people on TV making a fool out of themselves.  It’s nothing like that in reality.  I’ll run through what it is like later but for now if you’re thinking of giving it a go then do.  Dont be put off by any preconceptions.

Sid